On occasion Jesus left his meek and mild mode and confronted people. In Matthew 23, Jesus rebukes the scribes and teachers for not living out what they teach. They were in a particularly visible position, but the lesson is true for all of us, whatever our position. Our knowledge, even our intentions, often run ahead of our actions and behavior.

For example, we know we are to put Christ first in our lives. When we say “yes” to Christ, what does it mean? Where does it show? And if, in response to such self-analysis, we begin to burden ourselves with a list of do’s and don’ts, or add on religious activities, do we not fall into the error of the scribes? Jesus condemned them for wearing long prayer shawls and saying long prayers in public.

The key, I think, is in Jesus’ teachings following his rebuke: you have one spiritual parent, he says, and one religious teacher, and one instructor in how to live, and that is Jesus. Putting him first means to listen to him and to learn from him. Even now, as you stare at your computer screen, listen to Jesus. Review the things you have done today and hope to do tomorrow, and ask Jesus for any guidance, insight, plan, or attitude change he thinks you need.